"Cats" is Aarya's favourite book! The book has a pic of 100s of cats doing various activities which she calls ತರ್ಲೆ. Aarya has special love for cats and she used to say meowbekku beka as soon as she would wake up and would want to see neighbour's cats. She used to do this until October as it was still warm and the cats would play in the backyard. Now she loves this book and wants her mother to read it to her. What astonishes me is she almost knows each cat's activity in that book. Aarya is now 15 months and remembers 100s of things and speaks those words. Well, that's for another blog. She says “ತರ್ಲೆ ಬೆಕ್ಕು ಬುಕ್ಕು ಬೇಕ” in one sentence which is a tongue twister for most of us but she says without a mistake. 😅 Yesterday she took a cat plush toy from her Gijja's house. I'll have to wait and see how she plays with it. PS: she doesn't know to say ಬೇಕು yet. We ask her ಬೇಕಾ and she answers ಬೇಕ to affirm that she wants.
Ever since we became parents of this cute little fireball, there are a lot of questions we have been asking ourselves about parenting - are we doing it right? Are we overdoing or underdoing parenting? Where are we going wrong etc. Fortunately for us and Aarya, apart from her grandparents (my parents and Bhagya's parents), she has another pair of grandparents whom she affectionately calls Gijja and Pajjibajji, who have guided us a lot about parenting. More than teaching, we have seen their parenting style and feel it's so apt. They keep reminding us to let our child be fearless, exploratory and curious. As an example, we went on a trip with another couple, their kids and grandparents. Their little one was almost of Aarya's age, may be a few months older. We went to a gift shop and both kids were curious about some glass toys. Apart from telling their children to not touch the item, the granny told Aarya that she should not touch it and wanted if she wants wanted, the shipown...